• Mango
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    10 months ago

    I’d rather jerk it than bother with a condom and my cosmic tier anxiety about the universe I live in trying to peg me with a ‘gotcha’ and beating me up over failing to handle my own desire. I’ll handle it.

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      10 months ago

      I had kids when I got together with my now-husband and he did too, and I had a history of literally falling pregnant each of the times I didn’t use birth control, so he was vasectomized AND I had IUD put in, together this was as good as science can do now and it worked perfectly. Vasectomy can regrow but IUD is very reliable.

      I guess if sex isn’t important to you then enjoy, or if you can enjoy sex with men that would also be 100% no chance of pregnancy. But for me, it’s such a wonderful part of life, letting fear rule it seems bad.

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        10 months ago

        I can’t say I’m not horny as fuck. I just deal with it. It’d be pretty convenient to be gay. 🤣

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          10 months ago

          Well eventually you will get old enough that the women in your age group will be through menopause, maybe then you can get back in there.