Well, since I joined I realized, seems like lots of Lemmy users in most Lemmy instances are quite unnecessarily sensitive to revealing get-up. It’s like automatic for them. My previous posts from other Communities were downvoted (which simply messes the ranking) especially those I initially didn’t NSFW’d, since I, myself thought they were not NSFW.

So with such small data, I compromised to just simply mark them as NSFW for both male and female. Hence such will be invisible to those who disabled NSFW. It’s like the word “sexy” nowadays, years ago it was truthfully a fine compliment in comment sections (like in Flickr) when the big social media platforms were not prevalent yet.