• Ulrich
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    I threw up my own Pixelfed instance. It was awful. I’m much happier with GoToSocial.

    Plus I’m yet to run into a single person I actually know IRL on the fedi.

    • Flamekebab
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      1113 hours ago

      Plus I’m yet to run into a single person I actually know IRL on the fedi.

      Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

      • Ulrich
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        813 hours ago

        monolithic social media

        I…don’t know what that means?

        Lemmy is optimal for chatting with random people. If I want to share personal things, I prefer to do that with people I actually know.

        • Flamekebab
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          612 hours ago

          Monolithic as in Twitter, Reddit, Facebook - platforms that do not federate.

          • Ulrich
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            212 hours ago

            Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

            Maybe not for you. For me, I use social media as a way to sew and cultivate personal relationships. Someone I know posts something interesting and I might pick up the phone and call them and talk about it or we discuss it the next time we see each other. Or maybe there’s a local event that someone shares and looks fun and I ask to join them.

            • @small44
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              Almost all social apps are about algorithmic feed suggesting content from people you don’t know. Facebook is one of the few app that are still about personal connection. I can’t remember a single person i interacted with usernames on apps like lemmy

            • Flamekebab
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              512 hours ago

              That sounds lovely but it’s not been my experience of using social media (except Facebook). I’m not suggesting my experience is normal, or that yours is. I genuinely don’t know.

              • Ulrich
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                412 hours ago

                I couldn’t care less about what’s happening in the lives of celebrities or companies, or the unsupported political opinions of random strangers, but I guess I’m a weirdo in that way.

                • Flamekebab
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                  211 hours ago

                  I tend to use things like Pixelfed to find people interested in the same hobbies. Mastodon I use more for general nerding out.

                  I wasn’t intending to criticise your use-case. I don’t know what normal usage patterns look like.

                  • Ulrich
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                    211 hours ago

                    Yeah I wasn’t trying to accuse you of that, just pointing out why I don’t care much for these types of platforms in general.

    • @[email protected]
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      713 hours ago

      I mean, you could mention the fediverse to people you know IRL and get them to join.

      But I’ve only done that a handful of times, quite ineffectively, so I can’t presume to judge you.

      • Ulrich
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        313 hours ago

        I’ve only done that a handful of times, quite ineffectively

        Same.