• Flamekebab
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    1113 hours ago

    Plus I’m yet to run into a single person I actually know IRL on the fedi.

    Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

    • Ulrich
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      813 hours ago

      monolithic social media

      I…don’t know what that means?

      Lemmy is optimal for chatting with random people. If I want to share personal things, I prefer to do that with people I actually know.

      • Flamekebab
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        613 hours ago

        Monolithic as in Twitter, Reddit, Facebook - platforms that do not federate.

        • Ulrich
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          212 hours ago

          Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

          Maybe not for you. For me, I use social media as a way to sew and cultivate personal relationships. Someone I know posts something interesting and I might pick up the phone and call them and talk about it or we discuss it the next time we see each other. Or maybe there’s a local event that someone shares and looks fun and I ask to join them.

          • @small44
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            13 hours ago

            Almost all social apps are about algorithmic feed suggesting content from people you don’t know. Facebook is one of the few app that are still about personal connection. I can’t remember a single person i interacted with usernames on apps like lemmy

          • Flamekebab
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            512 hours ago

            That sounds lovely but it’s not been my experience of using social media (except Facebook). I’m not suggesting my experience is normal, or that yours is. I genuinely don’t know.

            • Ulrich
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              412 hours ago

              I couldn’t care less about what’s happening in the lives of celebrities or companies, or the unsupported political opinions of random strangers, but I guess I’m a weirdo in that way.

              • Flamekebab
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                211 hours ago

                I tend to use things like Pixelfed to find people interested in the same hobbies. Mastodon I use more for general nerding out.

                I wasn’t intending to criticise your use-case. I don’t know what normal usage patterns look like.

                • Ulrich
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                  211 hours ago

                  Yeah I wasn’t trying to accuse you of that, just pointing out why I don’t care much for these types of platforms in general.