• Ulrich
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    212 hours ago

    Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

    Maybe not for you. For me, I use social media as a way to sew and cultivate personal relationships. Someone I know posts something interesting and I might pick up the phone and call them and talk about it or we discuss it the next time we see each other. Or maybe there’s a local event that someone shares and looks fun and I ask to join them.

    • @small44
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      13 hours ago

      Almost all social apps are about algorithmic feed suggesting content from people you don’t know. Facebook is one of the few app that are still about personal connection. I can’t remember a single person i interacted with usernames on apps like lemmy

    • Flamekebab
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      512 hours ago

      That sounds lovely but it’s not been my experience of using social media (except Facebook). I’m not suggesting my experience is normal, or that yours is. I genuinely don’t know.

      • Ulrich
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        412 hours ago

        I couldn’t care less about what’s happening in the lives of celebrities or companies, or the unsupported political opinions of random strangers, but I guess I’m a weirdo in that way.

        • Flamekebab
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          211 hours ago

          I tend to use things like Pixelfed to find people interested in the same hobbies. Mastodon I use more for general nerding out.

          I wasn’t intending to criticise your use-case. I don’t know what normal usage patterns look like.

          • Ulrich
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            211 hours ago

            Yeah I wasn’t trying to accuse you of that, just pointing out why I don’t care much for these types of platforms in general.