Basically, I’m 25M and never had a real job. 2 days ago, my father just had a CVA and it’s at death’s door, having been the only income for our family his whole life. While he was a god awful parent to me, he did give us everything we needed, and he was a great dad to my sisters.

Now that he’s about to die, we not only lost our only provider, but he’s leaving us with a huge debt to pay (over 3M in local coin, around 3k USD) due to all the loans he took the last 2 years to buy fancy stuff for himself and my sisters, and being the older brother, it falls on me to bring the food to the table.

I honestly don’t know what to do at this point, I feel overwhelmed by all the sudden responsibilities, and running away isn’t an option, I can’t bring myself to leave my sisters and mother behind.

  • @Hawke
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    -221 hours ago

    Is your “3M” three thousand or three million?

    I ask because million is usually abbreviated as MM, and there’s a big difference between them.

      • @Hawke
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        19 hours ago

        Okay. That’s “better” ( still bad).

        How does that line up with local cost of living? Is that a month’s wages or a year’s?

        • @[email protected]OP
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          321 hours ago

          Taking my friend in account, who has the best job amongst us, he gains 220k a month, so around 1.5 years of his wage.