• @Nurse_Robot
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    2110 hours ago

    Your last sentence is crazy

      • @[email protected]
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        78 hours ago

        I love babies as a concept and the joy they bring their parents, but me and my partner are child free by choice, and part of that choice is us not wanting to care for an infant.

        • Dyskolos
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          25 hours ago

          You monster! According to the replies here the correlation between liking XYZ and wanting to have and care for XYZ is a must. But yeah, we too.

          • @[email protected]
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            25 hours ago

            But to ask “would people actually care for, shelter, and feed an animal they didn’t know? Like just bond with a creature for what? Emotional connection, companionship, and kinship to another living thing? I love animals, tho” is just a weird take. Like, you can love animals (or babies) and not want to be responsible for them in your home, but to be incredulous about why someone would want that is ridiculous.

            “Would people really let some stray live with them?”

            That’s literally the history of house cats. A million times, yes, people want to hang out with random cats.

            You don’t need to want cats or babies to see why other people would want cats or babies.

            • Dyskolos
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              02 hours ago

              I do love to interact with all kinds of species, learn from them and whatnot. I totally do. But the words “emotional connection” or “companionship” are very loaded. Most usual pets don’t care for my existence at all. Even cats would eat my dead body if they weren’t fed. A dog does form a bond, yes. But still. Why would I want that? I even despise the concept of “having a pet”. Who am I to enslave some animal to live under my reign? Spell it as romantically as you’d like, in the end, the animal does have to endure whatever you throw at it. I would not want such a “kinship”. My kind of “kinship” would end at a racoon (or whatever) coming to my house, gets fed, interacts with me, and then goes on to live the life it usually does.

              I’m aware of the history of housecats, but it surely isn’t the majority of people who would just “suddenly now have a cat” because a stray wanders in. Sure there are, yet I would still wonder about the motivation of those. Which was the initial point of my reply. Would YOU do that? Having a sudden responsibility of at least like 200 bucks a month because a stray comes in?

              • @[email protected]
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                11 hour ago

                Most usual pets don’t care for my existence at all.

                That sucks, dude. I’m sorry you’ve never experienced that.

                Also, a cat comes into your house and you have to feed it for a day:

      • @Nurse_Robot
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        56 hours ago

        It’s like talking about all the things you hate about the ocean, saying you can’t imagine why anyone likes it, and then saying you love it

        • Dyskolos
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          05 hours ago

          What a weird argument. I love rain too. Yet i don’t want it in my house. I also love elephants. But guess where I totally don’t want them. I also like to pet OTHER people’s cats and dogs. But that’s about it. They enjoy it and that’s fine by me. But i don’t want all the stupid work and time and money that go into a pet I can’t even speak with. Same reason (besides many others though) I don’t have kids.

          • @Nurse_Robot
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            05 hours ago

            You’re clearly very opinionated

    • Dyskolos
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      -15 hours ago

      Just because some things don’t align with yours doesn’t make it “crazy”. But if you prefer it that way? Then yes, I’m crazy I don’t want to care for animals that don’t belong in my house and force them into my reign. How crazy I prefer my time and money to be mine and mine (and my wife’s) alone. How crazy I don’t want to spend time scratching cat-poo out of a litter-box. Or go watch a dog on a leach (that would prefer to roam his territory freely, not under my heel) have a shit outside and scrape it off the floor.

      Damn, I should take pills for that :)

      • @Nurse_Robot
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        15 hours ago

        That’s a very defensive long winded reply to my 5 word comment lol.

        • Dyskolos
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          -13 hours ago

          I have the time to do it, as I’m not force to comb my cat’s shitter for precious remnants :)