I’ll start: if they have hobbies it’s a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.

  • @sfgifz
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    111 year ago

    This isn’t always a good idea. You should to be able to communicate hard facts, but being tactful about when and where is important.

    • @kalkulat
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      11 year ago

      Oh yeah, absolutely. (I knew I was making the words ‘good advice’ carry a lot of weight there, but it’s late here.)

      For example, Bill’s got a health problem, but persists in consuming something that’s bad for that. Jill quietly/quickly reminds him of that now and then.