Gormadt to Ask Lemmy • 1 year agoWhat are some green flags in a partner in your opinion?message-square53fedilinkarrow-up1129arrow-down111file-text
arrow-up1118arrow-down1message-squareWhat are some green flags in a partner in your opinion?Gormadt to Ask Lemmy • 1 year agomessage-square53fedilinkfile-text
I’ll start: if they have hobbies it’s a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.
minus-square@Zeth0slink-6•edit-21 year agoRed flag for me: if a partner judges hobbies based on some arbitrary definition of “creativity”. It is usually red flag for snobby partners. Gardening or gaming are as good as painting
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink12•1 year agoI think lacking reading comprehension and arguing in bad faith are worse red flags than the one you’ve painted.
minus-square@Zeth0slink-1•edit-21 year agoYou see, this is a good thing. Different red flags save different people from incompatible partners.
Red flag for me: if a partner judges hobbies based on some arbitrary definition of “creativity”. It is usually red flag for snobby partners.
Gardening or gaming are as good as painting
I think lacking reading comprehension and arguing in bad faith are worse red flags than the one you’ve painted.
You see, this is a good thing. Different red flags save different people from incompatible partners.