• @Ep1cFac3pa1m
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    Interesting how women have zero agency in either scenario…almost like the commenter sees women as accessories to men 🤷‍♂️

  • @dynamojoe
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    This sounds like someone who may or may not be in his early thirties trying to justify dating people half his age. Creepy AF

  • @Nobody
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    Ah, the duality of womanhood. Should she be the victim of a pedophile or a sexual plaything for 50 dudes? Those are clearly the only two options.

    • @HowManyNimons
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      And it is her father that must choose between these options.

    • @[email protected]
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      Plus there’s nothing wrong with having sex with lots of different people if that’s what she wants to do

      • @spongebue
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        Right, like… It’s certainly more people than I’ve had sex with, but if you’re being safe, learning about yourself and what you want, not getting into any emotional issues (for either party), and yes… having fun, great!

        Also, 50 partners is like one per month through 4 years in college. Not totally outrageous to be honest.

      • @Gabu
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        50 in a few years seems like a lot, though. Like, health hazard levels.

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          Everyone is different, but is defintly a health risk, both physically and mentally (not only for women, also for men).

  • @olutukko
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    “What woman wants” yeah here’s your problem. They don’t all want the same thing shocker

    And nobody in their right mind would want to see teenage tantrums on their partner at age of 33. I have seen a lot older guys dating women under 18 and let me tell you something. Those guys aint exactly mature or winners. Or then they are just creeps

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      Some women want to be “run through” by 30-50 people

      Some women don’t

      It’s like they are…individuals

      • @olutukko
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        The age of consent is 16 here in finland. So yes I have

          • @olutukko
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            Usually around 24-26. So not that old but definently old enough that they should be way more mature than those who they are dating

    • @HappycamperNZ
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      Yup - if you see someone single over 30 and there’s not a good reason for it (work, military, study, trauma, recent break up) its probably because people their age see through their shit

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        There are other reasons, like just wanting to be single or seeing through everyone else’s shit.

        • @HappycamperNZ
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          I would argue those qualify as good reasons

            • @HappycamperNZ
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              Yes, the downvotes are agreeing I could have explained better. Joy of internet conversations.

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    When pedophiles try and use logic, it’s ALWAYS going to be a bad faith comparison that illustrates themselves as the virtuous knight in shining armor to women with zero agency.

    • @johannesvanderwhales
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      Right because a 33 year old being interested in teenagers is a great sign of how mature and stable they are.

    • @Gabu
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      You haven’t seen many posts from the earlier days of Reddit, have you? I admire your innocence.

  • @aeronmelon
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    This 33 year old was the one giving those college girls emotional trauma when he was 18, wasn’t he?

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    That’s assuming (a lot) about the 30 year old knowing more about “what women want” compared to their 16 year old self.

    When I was a kid I always assumed there would be a point in life where I’d feel like an adult. You don’t, you just get ground into the mould with responsibilities & stress!

    The only difference between me aged 30 & 16 is grey hairs & white knuckles. I know jack shit about “what women want”, other than “don’t be a dickhead”.

    • @[email protected]
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      It is like saying someone who has been divorced three times knows what is needed for a long term relationship.

      Experience does not always lead to understanding.

    • @sunbrrnslapper
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      Gonna go out on a limb and say you know exactly what women want.

  • @zeppo
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    “dem boyz”. huh, wonder what he might possibly mean there.

  • Rhynoplaz
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    This guy really thinks he has the moral high ground here. Eew.

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    I would rather see her make her own decisions

    Also, shouldn’t that 33 year old be mature enough to understand not to date 16 year olds?

    Half your age +7 rule my dude.

    • Subverb
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      So at 59 I can’t date anyone under 37?

      Well, balderdash.

    • @Emerald
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      That is a terrible rule. If I am 25,000 I can’t even date a 12,507 year old.

  • @Fluffy_Ruffs
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    “the life experience to know what women want long term” hey dude a 65-year old woman has the life experience to know what men want long term. Why not go date a cougar?

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    Or how about be a parent and model for your child how to make good, healthy decisions with their power of reason (however that looks for your family) and trust them to figure it out.

    • @[email protected]
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      If a teenager wants to date a 33 year old, that is obviously bad parenting. At that age she should be married for at least 7 years to someone to someone with real life experience, like a great uncle. /s

  • Lightor
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    If you think these are the only two options you shouldn’t be having children.

  • @[email protected]
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    “I’m such a terrible parent that I know my daughter will make terrible decisions when she gains her independence because I spent eighteen years fucking her up beyond belief.”

    • @[email protected]
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      More like,

      “I’m a 33 year old (virgin?) who has no idea what it’s like to be a woman, seeking a girl young enough to not realize that my ‘relationship maturity’ is that of a 16 year old and I’ll certainly give her plenty of emotional baggage. Also, if I ever become a father I’m going to make my daughter wear a purity ring. And no college.”