i.e. a lazy person calling you lazy or someone uneducated about something thinking you’re the uninformed one

  • FriendOfDeSoto
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    59 hours ago

    I think “projection” works. I thought of “external attribution” as well when I read this question.

  • TomAwsm
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    29 hours ago

    It takes one to know one.

    The pot calling the kettle black.

  • @db2
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    It’s also called standard American conservative politics.

  • @[email protected]
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    Edit: preemptive “no you”lol

    To be understood, I’d probably just say projection. If you need to emphasize a specific aspect of the behavior, you could break it down as a maladaptive inferiority complex that prompts social anxiety evidenced by momentary paranoid ideation and compulsory preemptive introjection.

    Explanation: introjection refers to a mirroring behavior common in children. In this case, the accuser anticipates an accusation from you. To defend themselves, they hurl the accusation right back at you. But of course the first accusation only happened in their head, so all we witness is someone wildly accusing someone else of having their own flaw.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      212 hours ago

      It really is childish behavior which is why it’s such an annoying situation. Literally dealing with a delusional toddler defending yourself against things that never happened.