As a man with 2 young kids, yes. Yes you do. It’s an obligation for you to enjoy the free time as much as you can. I rely on my childless friends to fill me in on what’s happening in the cultured world, because for me my life is nothing but Bluey, Paw Patrol, and Cocomelon.
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chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
Casual Conversation@piefed.social•Why wouldn’t you want to get marriedEnglish
3·7 days agoWe have 2 kids. All property is in my name alone. I am the only one working.
This situation works out fine, as 1 since I file taxes as head of household, and she files single, we never end up owing money come tax time. If we were married, we’d have a slight tax benefit, but not really much. Also since I technically make enough money to be in the bottom of the bracket that doesn’t qualify for state and federal benefits for the kids. So if we got married our kids would lose state insurance, which is good and covers everything, and instead i’d have to up my work insurance to cover my whole family, which is bad, barely covers anything, and is expensive.
The benefits of marriage are nothing, and the negatives of it are very damaging. We are barely scraping by as we are, so no marriage.
Unfortunately that’s not technically true. Trump’s grandfather reportedly immigrated to the US in 1885, and Puerto Rico was first obtained by the US from the Spanish in 1898.
According to these sources:
https://factually.co/fact-checks/politics/did-trumps-family-immigrate-to-us-legally-e8dddb
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Political_status_of_Puerto_Rico
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if it weren’t for the slight sliver of hope I still desperately cling onto that my kids still have the possibility to have a happier experience with life than I had, I would’ve taken the express route off this ride years ago.
I was just a few dotted I’s and crossed t’s into finishing a plan when I learned I was having twins. So now I stick around, trying my best to give them the best experience with life that I possibly can. I’m not great at it, my personal life isn’t any better, I still hate everyone in this terrible world, but seeing them happy makes me smile. So there’s that.
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chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
Ask Lemmy•Is there anything like church without the church?English
231·18 days agoChurch without church is just a book club.
The disinterested cynical introverted friend of the fun obviously interested, hot person you’re trying to get involved with.
That bedtime snack will be delicious, but you have to deal with the crumbs after.
chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
Europe@europe.pub•France to replace Zoom and Teams with sovereign platform ‘Visio’English
4·22 days agoIsn’t Visio a TV?
chefdano3@lemmy.ziptoMicroblog Memes•Charlie Kirk was noticeably absent on MLK Jr. Fascinating.English
8·28 days agoHe’s absent on all current issues as well.
Ah that one works, thank you. Every time I selected to view the original post or the direct link, it wasn’t that one. Maybe I’ll try poking around to see if I can find an option that gives me that link.
It’s the same no matter where I open it.
Am I missing something here? Why is everyone talking about spiders

chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
Ask Lemmy•What paid software is absolutely worth the money?English
21·1 month agoYour joke made me laugh, and I’m proud of you for making it.
chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
Dull Men's Club•Finally put up some shelving and wall mounted the dryer after living here for 5ish years.English
3·2 months agoHah! That’s funny that it had to burn off the old lint. That’s pretty dang cool that it can be used that way.
chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
Dull Men's Club•Finally put up some shelving and wall mounted the dryer after living here for 5ish years.English
4·2 months agoThis is the opposite of Dull. This is one of the most interesting things I’ve seen today.
First off, building laundry shelves is awesome, I’ve been dreaming of making improvements to my laundry room for almost 5 years now, and I still haven’t done it. So heck yeah man that’s awesome.
Secondly, that upside down wall mounted dryer is blowing my mind! Like what the heck! I didn’t know you could do that! Does that work? Do you just get used to all the labeling being unreadable? That’s insane! I mean, I get it, it puts the door closer to the ground, but I never would’ve thought that would work. Does it dry better or worse than if it were right side up? Does the lint trap still trap lint as well or do your clothes end up a little more… Fuzzy? Idk how to even tell if one dryer leaves more lint on clothes than others.
I’m so intrigued.
Remember when we thought 2016 was the worst it could get?
Good times.
How is my guy only gonna poop 14 times in 38 years? My 3 year old kid has pooped twice 10 times that already
chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name•How many Musketeers?English
8·2 months agoMighty nein vibes.
chefdano3@lemmy.zipto
Cooking •We aren't going to make it, are we? People I mean.English
2·2 months agoWhy do you add an Estimated Time of Arrival, but then not give a time?




Literally saw a YouTube short of someone doing just that. The did the skeleton luge. They did half the run, and then they estimated the rest of the run and she came in almost 2 min slower than the last place finish in the Olympics.