In the last year or so I started to see so many people of my age that have done truly incredible things and still doing more.
For the vast majority of my life my only goals were gettimg academic satisfaction and doing unproductive stuff in the free time to get temporary pleasure. No end goal whatsoever.
I kind of don’t know what I’ve been doing in the last 17 years while someone gets a patent on solar systems, other invents a new recyclable plastic, and another found a successful startup. I mean, they all find what they’re supposed to be doing with their lives and excel in them.
I feel overwhelmed for trying to pace up with these kind of people. Yet I don’t like the way the things are and I can’t do anything but envy those people.
Anyone with experience in this regard? How did you deal with this? Did you eventually “pace up” with these people or was it too late or an unattainable goal?
Edit: Whoops, I didn’t expect so many replies! Thanks, I’ll look into them all
Stop comparing your blooper reel to everyone else’s highlights. Everyone has doubts, struggles, issues, problems, falters, stumbles, falls, insecurities, etc. It’s extremely rare that you get to see those. People only broadcasts the best about themselves. Hell, most people project a fake self image where they’re more successful and confident than they really are. Don’t compare yourself to that. Compare yourself against your past self and your own goals and self appointed purpose.