Hello. For context, I am in a university. I do not have any friends, and it feels like colleagues talk bad about me. This makes me quite hesitant to join any circles or attend seminars. I am not sure it is everyone who thinks bad about me though, I fear about asking. Yet I plan to do research, so I should attend seminars to learn current trends and stuffs. May I ask what I should do in such a situation? Are friends necessary, or not really? Also should I stop being in this environment and get a job instead? Thanks for reading lengthy paragraph, I would love any comments or advice for this.

  • @NeoNachtwaechter
    9•14 days ago

    I see, but I am worried that the behaviors they hate on is exactly the autistic & social anxiety behaviors I exhibit.

    You are worried, yes.

    They do not hate, No.

    Some people may find your behaviour extraordinary, and that is enough to maybe talk about. But there is a whole world between “find something extraordinary” and “hate”.

    If you do never talk to people, then this is your behaviour. You can change it. You can talk to people. Case solved.