Ah, well, there’s something I can agree with you on! That is an abhorrent thing to do to a woman. Simply put, it reduces her to a sexual object in the same way that porn does. I’d say it’s on the same level as porn because it trains men and women to think that’s the only real purpose of marriage. There’s no dignity in it, no actual love. It really is just glorified rape and slavery. Besides all that, they make Christianity look worse to everyone else and drives people away from Christ. It’s a lose/lose. I can explain further if you want (and if you don’t go back to insulting me after this comment).