Here’s where the word “upset” having multiple meanings can be a problem.
If he is upset, as in sad and/or confused, ok, that’s a reasonably expected reaction.
If he is upset as in angry about being turned down, then he’s being pretty entitled and has criticism coming.
In terms of things having gone too far, it’s simple enough. We are connected all the time and we can find al sorts of echo chambers and be in contact with that circle 24/7 using online engagement where we can just turn off/ban anyone that we don’t feel like dealing with. This fosters a strange mix of overthinking things, contagious pessimism, and isolationist behavior. People need more balance with more real life interaction.
Here’s where the word “upset” having multiple meanings can be a problem.
If he is upset, as in sad and/or confused, ok, that’s a reasonably expected reaction.
If he is upset as in angry about being turned down, then he’s being pretty entitled and has criticism coming.
In terms of things having gone too far, it’s simple enough. We are connected all the time and we can find al sorts of echo chambers and be in contact with that circle 24/7 using online engagement where we can just turn off/ban anyone that we don’t feel like dealing with. This fosters a strange mix of overthinking things, contagious pessimism, and isolationist behavior. People need more balance with more real life interaction.