• @atomicpoet
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    12 days ago

    I get that, but it also seems like there’s a lot of hand-wringing—almost the sense that dudes are entitled to dates.

    But getting a date takes work, going in a good date takes work, and keeping the relationship going after that takes work too.

    All this takes an investment. And if you aren’t willing to put in the work, nothing will happen for you.