Misconceptions of a group of people are on you. Groups of organized people have a stated goal normally. Most the time if they are trying to enact change the media will shine them in a bad light and misconstrue their message on purpose. Feminists, unions, socialist, communists,etc. It is the conservative attack plan. Also when people are demanding change and equal rights people react to change negatively because they feel like the system is fine.

Lastly on the specific instance of man vs feminists. More men hold power and do crime. The world can’t change unless men change it. Women can’t feel safe unless men change. Unless you prove you are an ally why should they trust you