Everything about human perspective, all physical senses and complex abstract thoughts, are based on pattern recognition. In computer science specifically, those patterns are discrete, absolute, pure (same output for a given input). It’s a tiny tiny representation of the universe with clear rules that can be manipulated easily.

The mind, however, has an infinite number of variables affecting each person differently. Some people naturally pick up on these patterns, we call it empathy. As social herd animals, it helps to understand other people’s general intentions without all the research, so that we can share resources and avoid danger or conflict. Other people don’t have that particular rulebook, but more easily pick up on mathematics or languages, or coding, whatever it may be.

Life at all is ridiculous as a concept, so the fact that not everyone experiences it the same way is a fact, our genes and life experiences makes it impossible to all be the same. So your ability to spark controversy is just people not understanding your set of patterns, while you don’t understand theirs. Its not wrong or right, just a fact. And it’s up to each person to decide how much they want to be able to socialize with any given rules.