I don’t think I’ve spoken to a woman on Tinder who is actually interested in dating. The majority of them don’t ever reply, the few that do put zero effort into the conversation and often just want money. Once in a while a woman agrees to meet then just doesn’t. What the actual fuck? How do you guys handle this bullshit?
Before I get called an incel 1000 times, I am already doing everything right. I’m in therapy, I exercise every day, I eat healthy, I have diverse interests and several friends. I have paid people to review my profile and conversations and everyone agrees I am doing everything right.
Idk about outside of America but here you go on fetlife and look at events that are happening in your area. There are two kinds that are particularly open to new people: 101 classes which are as the name implies, and munches which are just a bunch of people getting together to have dinner. Nothing explicit happens at munches, though conversations will regularly dip that direction when seating allows (without disturbing people who aren’t there for that). It’s kinda the basic unit of the community in a lot of places. It’s how you know who’s who and who knows what and who and what all is happening. And it’s just a really good way to not be off in the corner alone not knowing anyone if you attend more intense events