So as my post says I’m pretty new to the bdsm world. I took this test when my partner first introduced it to me. She is a brat, princess, sub. Being a hard dom i felt didn’t come natural and felt awkward with it. She told me im more of a soft dom which is nice because thats what she likes and feels more like me.

I would like more guidance on soft doms and rigging. The rigging i do know i would say isn’t safe to use her since it’s used to detain prisoners. We do communicate and there is after care just sometimes i feel a bit lost.

  • xain52 OP
    1•1 year ago

    Thanks for the response. I like to tie and she has told me that its something that she likes sometimes although we havent tried yet. As for the dom part i feel thats more of the mental aspect of i like to do and she has stated that she enjoys it because i am creative. I did give her a task of writing down things i do that she likes or dislikes and how she feels in a notebook that she is to keep with her at all times. I feel that it will help me learn more about her as well a help her with her confidence when asked what she likes since she has difficulties with that.