I’ve been identifying as ace for 10 years at this point, and I have always for the most part been completely fine with it. But recently I’ve been feeling very lonely. I can’t quite vibe with the “I don’t need nobody 😎” ace meme energy anymore as I mostly just feel sad about it. The worst part is that I’d rather “date” or whatever ace-date, qpr, I don’t know, another woman, but I don’t really have options because I live in a small town. It’s kinda been wearing me down :(

Also, I got a little lesbian flag colour sticker recently and I feel like an impostor. Though I am bambi lesbian I think? But still…

  • kanervatarOPEnglish
    3•1 year ago

    I don’t really understand the “slight consideration of aro instead” but I’ll say anyways. I know I’ve never fallen in love but I want to share my life with someone… preferably a woman (or I guess enby). It’s not that I have something against men per se but… it’s difficult for me to often connect with them on a deeper level especially since there is no attraction on my part.

    Also thanks.