I’m probably missing something you explained in your reply but if I were sitting on the edge of an event horizon and was holding a stopwatch and I was watching someone outside of the event horizon holding a stopwatch, and we synchronized our start times, I would see their stop watch go for example 10x faster - theirs would say 1 minute and mine would say 6 seconds. Wouldn’t that make my relative/actual? time much slower making my universe only 1.4 billion years old and theirs 13.7billion years old. I think I’m having trouble understanding the difference between relative and actual
I’m probably missing something you explained in your reply but if I were sitting on the edge of an event horizon and was holding a stopwatch and I was watching someone outside of the event horizon holding a stopwatch, and we synchronized our start times, I would see their stop watch go for example 10x faster - theirs would say 1 minute and mine would say 6 seconds. Wouldn’t that make my relative/actual? time much slower making my universe only 1.4 billion years old and theirs 13.7billion years old. I think I’m having trouble understanding the difference between relative and actual