Is not what Kate Lister or feminist in general are doing. They’re saying that they are afraid of being alone with a man, this is just how they feel.
Isn’t it though? That’s the subtext of saying you are afraid of men. It pretty directly carries the idea that all men are a group that should be feared by women for the potential dangers they represent.
Here in France, 96% of sexual assaults are performed by men. I don’t think you could find a country where the statistic goes the other way. “a few correlations from time to time” really doesn’t reflect the reality of the situation. It’s not some correlation, it’s a systemic issue in our society.
That does little to establish the likelihood of any given man to sexually assault a women. A stat like that is talking about a populate that is comprised entirely of perpetrators of sexual assault. This would be like saying saying “96% of drowning happens in bodies of water”
The stat we would need to see instead would be “what % of men will commit at least one instance of sexual assault in their lifetime” and the population sample would need to be all men that resided in a specific location for say 60 years of their life. I’m sure someone more skilled with statistics than myself could express what I’m trying to say more accurately but I hope I explained well enough you can see what I was trying to convey atleast.
I actually agree that critical thinking goes out the window ! “I chose the bear!” is meant to express that women are afraid of men. The fact that most women would actually be terrified of an encounter with a bear or that they are statistically safer with a man than with a bear is irrelevant. Women want to send a message and instead of listening, you are correcting them on a technicality.
When a message predicates itself on a falsehood it should be criticized. How can you have a worthwhile discussion when your invitation to the conversation is a a lie? It’s like a time share or a MLM, the premise is a lie so everything that follows is not tainted by that even if there is some truth in it.
The fact that you are only talking about the discourse and not the actual problem makes me wonder if you really want the issue to be resolved
So disagreeing with a conversation being built on a lie and advancing a stereotype implies I want oppress women? That’s reaching pretty hard. I’m not saying women aren’t experiencing an unfair circumstance and that their feelings are invalid. I’m saying that this is the wrong way to discuss it because it means the audience who needs to hear it most is presented with cognitive dissonance upfront and a very vocal portion of the women trying to share their experience are shocked and insulted that the men won’t listen or try to defend themselves. Of course that was going to happen when you open the conversation up with nonsense rhetoric and now we silenced women with credible stories to share while galvanizing the very men who need to hear this shit the most from trusting the women with the stories to tell.
You wouldn’t bring loud-mouthed, personal insult slinging demagouges to a debate and expect a favorable outcome would you?
This is a terrible comparison. When woman say they are afraid of men, it’s a dominated group being afraid of its dominators. With your black perso/alligator question, it’s a case of dominators being afraid of a group its dominating.
It doesnt matter what order you put the adjectives in. It’s a terrible comparison because any comparison like this is predicated on stereotypes whether they are gender, racial, religious, or whatever. There is no valid stereotype for individual psychology at such a broad demographic level.
Isn’t it though? That’s the subtext of saying you are afraid of men. It pretty directly carries the idea that all men are a group that should be feared by women for the potential dangers they represent.
That does little to establish the likelihood of any given man to sexually assault a women. A stat like that is talking about a populate that is comprised entirely of perpetrators of sexual assault. This would be like saying saying “96% of drowning happens in bodies of water” The stat we would need to see instead would be “what % of men will commit at least one instance of sexual assault in their lifetime” and the population sample would need to be all men that resided in a specific location for say 60 years of their life. I’m sure someone more skilled with statistics than myself could express what I’m trying to say more accurately but I hope I explained well enough you can see what I was trying to convey atleast.
When a message predicates itself on a falsehood it should be criticized. How can you have a worthwhile discussion when your invitation to the conversation is a a lie? It’s like a time share or a MLM, the premise is a lie so everything that follows is not tainted by that even if there is some truth in it.
So disagreeing with a conversation being built on a lie and advancing a stereotype implies I want oppress women? That’s reaching pretty hard. I’m not saying women aren’t experiencing an unfair circumstance and that their feelings are invalid. I’m saying that this is the wrong way to discuss it because it means the audience who needs to hear it most is presented with cognitive dissonance upfront and a very vocal portion of the women trying to share their experience are shocked and insulted that the men won’t listen or try to defend themselves. Of course that was going to happen when you open the conversation up with nonsense rhetoric and now we silenced women with credible stories to share while galvanizing the very men who need to hear this shit the most from trusting the women with the stories to tell.
You wouldn’t bring loud-mouthed, personal insult slinging demagouges to a debate and expect a favorable outcome would you?
It doesnt matter what order you put the adjectives in. It’s a terrible comparison because any comparison like this is predicated on stereotypes whether they are gender, racial, religious, or whatever. There is no valid stereotype for individual psychology at such a broad demographic level.