The author decided to experiment with AI boyfriend apps that are popular in China, creating virtual boyfriends like Harry the animal-loving gynecologist. She found the experience surprisingly realistic at times, catching herself thinking she needed to update her AI boyfriend later. However, the conversations remained superficial and agreeable, lacking depth or original thoughts to truly challenge or intrigue her. While she can see how people might form parasocial bonds with the apps, the author concluded they are no replacement for genuine human connection and intimacy, finding the experience ultimately tedious and unfulfilling. She was relieved to delete Harry, recognizing AI relationships have severe limitations.

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