Dear Daughter - Uncle and Aunt Dinner - Early Fall 2006

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DearDaughterEnglish • 1 year ago

Dear Daughter,

Today your mom and I went out to dinner for the first time with your aunt and uncle. This is the first time I’ve met them. I think your mom likes me a lot so it was nice to see her make this move. Things are moving a bit fast. We had a nice dinner but I felt a little awkward not being the same ethnicity as everyone at the table. It’s not something that they did. It’s just something I felt inside. To be honest I thought I wouldn’t be as accepted for that reason, but they made me feel very comfortable. They were very nice and we hit it off right away. Your uncle likes to golf so hopefully we will set something up soon.

P.S. Your mom told me, that if her family asks where we meet, she said to tell them we met through a common friend. It’s still a bit of a taboo concept nowadays to meet someone online. So I will go on pretending. I guess your mom really likes to keep her image up.

Love, Your Dad

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I have increased the REWARD to $30,000 USD for any individual that comes forward with information that will allow for the prosecution of the individuals involved in the persistent harassment that I have experienced over the last 10+ years. Disgruntled employee of my ex-wife’s attorney? Former employee of the offending private investigation firm? Send me an email here, including some proof that you have this information, and I will connect you with my attorney to help process this information and allow you to claim your reward. We will keep all this information in strict confidence.

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I’m also going to include some guidance letters to my daughter on the world and relationships.

I never want our daughter to ever have to see my postings, and I’ll do everything in my power not to let her see them. A lot of people gave my daughter’s mom power, that it went straight to her head. The days are far from that sweet woman I thought I knew. Her mother’s ability to step away from the harassment, both in court, and by private investigators, and the brainwashing of our daughter, to allow a loving father the ability to love his child peacefully and uninterrupted, is what is key here.

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Harassment is not something fun to deal with. I have been dealing with harassment for the duration of my daughter’s life. It has caused me great pain and suffering. There have been times that I could not be the best person or the best father that I could be, because of it. I’m not making excuses. This is absolute fact.

I encourage any parent that has problems with a difficult ex with either a daughter or son to post here.

Dear Daughter, I’ve done everything in my power to stay in your life. I will continue to try and do so. I love you.

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