Self-hoster/FOSS Pronouns: He/Him

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  • Is he working on his depression? Therapy, self care, is he working on himself?

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    Sometimes he doesn’t like doing stuff for me even when I do stuff for him or doesn’t like my interests much but wants me to like his.

    Kinda a red flag, unless I’m misreading. It sounds like he doesn’t like doing stuff for you and doesn’t care for your interests. A relationship is people giving and taking. If ones depressed and can’t give that’s fine but ones gotta make up for it in their own way. Later when they can. If not something to ask yourself is can you do this for the rest of your life. Are you ok with that.