L4L (Lemmy's R4R)

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L4L (Lemmy's R4R)

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Welcome to L4L! Whether your looking for a friendship, a romantic relationship, a gaming buddy, to arrange a meetup, forming a chosen family, networking with others, or any other form of social connections with fellow lemmings, online or offline, across the world or locally, then this is your go to place in the lemmyverse!

This is lemmy’s equivalent to reddit’s R4R, so if your familiar with that then you’ll feel very at home here! if not then it’s quite simple: post an introduction of yourself in line with the title format and wait for interested people to message you! And of course, follow the rules! It goes as follows:

the Rules

1: Use the formats at the formats section before posting, and use only english for your posts, you may state to speak another language in private if you want. And of course, please use common sense and decency, be kind, honest, inclusive, respectful, and descriptive of what your looking for and what your boundaries are. No toxicity, discrimination, exclusion, bigotry, harassment, illegal content/activities, taking advantage of others, catfishing, etc. of any kind whatsoever. And please only post every 8 hours at max, don’t spam the place.
2: Do NOT downvote or upvote posts! Please keep things friendly and welcoming here for everyone! Don’t give anyone a hard time! And please refrain from commenting on posts, this isn’t a discussion forum. (If people abuse this then i will consider moving this community to a different instance)
3: Adult activities and subjects are only allowed if it’s kept at a minimum and not done so excessively or as the sole and only focus, there’s other places for that if you need, so keep boundaries and comfort in mind please. And do not use any NSFW images under any circumstances.
4: Do not use links in your posts, if you wish to chat on a different platform or share something, state so and only share the link in private.
5: Do NOT share personal info on your posts like your precise and exact location, phone number, personal email, etc. right away, keep sensitive information like that in private and ONLY if you trust the person, please stay safe.

If anyone violates the rules and they haven’t been seen yet, or there’s any issues broadly, please contact the mods of the community!

Formats

Please use the following formats before posting or else it’s going to get automatically removed for incorrect formatting.

A = anyone
L = lemming/lemmy/lemmling/etc!
M = male or masculine
F = female or feminine
TF/TM = trans female or femme / trans male or masc
GF = genderfluid
NB = non binary

And if your looking for a romantic relationship or anything that may be deemed inappropriate to some, even if it’s not necessarily adult, please mark your post with [NSFW], and if it’s something more widely accepted or safely platonic, use [SFW]. Here’s some examples of how you should title your posts:

[18L] [L4L] [SFW] Online - Looking for a chatting buddy!
[18L] [L4L] [NSFW] Anywhere/Online - Bisexual looking to date someone and travel with!
[18L] [L4LLLL] [SFW] Germany/Berlin - Looking to arrange a local book club with 4 other people!

And if you wish to stay partially anonymous for any reason, use something like this:

[Anon] [L4L] [SFW] Online - Looking to chat about coding!

And if you only want to list a broad estimate of your age and not an exact one, just add a plus at the end of the age to specify that, something like this:

[18+L] [L4L] [SFW] Anywhere/Online - looking for a gaming companion!

Now venture forth fellow lemming! We wish you much luck on your journey to find connections! Be well! And a huge thanks to @[email protected] for providing a custom bot for the community!

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