Yeah, bit of both. Overall way more laid back, especially when it comes to driving and generally dealing with the masses (shopping centres, events, etc.)

People are people and are only going to learn their lessons as they either see healthy examples before them or make their mistakes and follow up with the correct (and reflected) response.

Me getting pissed off isn’t going to change anything.

However when there is a deliberate and selfish act in front of me I’ll call that out. No problem.

Hopefully my teeny weenie physical sphere of influence will be enough.