• @[email protected]
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      316 months ago

      Poor wording I guess.

      I know farming is hard work, but I’d be happy with my own plot doing my own thing.

      Life right now is not simple and I got my dream job and I still don’t think I’ll be happy. Owning my own plot of land would be wonderful and unload a lot of anxiety.

      • @[email protected]
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        196 months ago

        That’s fair! Modern life is… very complex, and expects a lot out of you, even if you’re “doing well”.

        • @[email protected]
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          106 months ago

          Yup. It’s morbid I know but I swear I’m just looking forward to the day I don’t wake up again. Sadly I’ve got another 40 years to go.

          • @rhadamanth_nemes
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            46 months ago

            I just wanted to say that you’re not alone, life seems very complicated and prospects seem rough. Try reconnecting with old friends? Sending some good vibes your way.

            • @[email protected]
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              76 months ago

              Sure. I’m a software developer but it’s just not fulfilling for me; like I enjoy the problem solving but it’s just not something I think I would be happy still doing in a decade.

              I actually have a desire to help other people more and do something meaningful. Like teaching kids these skills, kids that don’t have an opportunity.

              • @cone_zombie
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                66 months ago

                And here I am, trying to change careers from teaching to IT. I guess the grass is always greener

              • @[email protected]
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                56 months ago

                That’s an amazing idea. Have you looked for any local organizations or after-school programs you could connect with? Or even a local school’s tech program. I bet they’d love to have you in as a guest to do a project with the kids. My kid’s school has local experts come in to do week- or month-long projects with a class. Doesn’t solve your job dilemma but if you’re finding fulfillment outside of work it may not matter.

              • @aidan
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                26 months ago

                Depending where you are there are a lot of opportunities for kids. I’m curious if there are many free opportunities for adults and if anyone would do it.

      • JJROKCZ
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        86 months ago

        Keep in mind farming is also quite expensive nowadays and you won’t be able to survive off the yields by farming your great grandfathers way.

        Clarksons farm hams it up a bit but does touch on the real costs and effort that goes into modern farming. He just finished season 4 and affirmed again that a normal farmer would be bankrupt in his situation, his farm only survives due to his being rich from other revenue streams

        • JackGreenEarth
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          36 months ago

          I suppose you don’t have to do ‘modern farming’, though. You could farm in an older way.

          • JJROKCZ
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            16 months ago

            And you’ll maybe have enough crop to feed yourself each winter, one bad yield and you starve though. And that’s if you can attain a decent amount of land and you break both you and your mule’s back working it