Some just find the idea of their partner having had a lot of other partners unappealing. I get it, it’s a really common thing. I’m sure some of it is sexism but having a ton of previous partners isn’t very appealing to a lot of women either. Plenty of jokes about someone having so many diseases that their dick falls off lol
It’s okay to not find it appealing but it’s still not okay to call someone a slut because you feel like they had too many sexual partners. It’s easy as that ¯_(ツ)_/¯
They are not slut. There’s no reason to think of someone like that. Having more sexual partners than you are being comfortable with doesn’t make someone a slut.
I’d argue that the word means that you care more about having “fun” than having “virtue”, but as long as noone is getting hurt, I see nothing wrong with that. Life is short.
Oh no, I could’ve gotten laid! 😭
and herein lies the inherent contradiction of misogynistic objectification 😞😞
woman who sleep with men are sluts. women who won’t sleep with me? also sluts.
I mean someone can still sleep with a lot of people even when it doesn’t include you. So it’s not necessarily contradictory
Some just find the idea of their partner having had a lot of other partners unappealing. I get it, it’s a really common thing. I’m sure some of it is sexism but having a ton of previous partners isn’t very appealing to a lot of women either. Plenty of jokes about someone having so many diseases that their dick falls off lol
It’s okay to not find it appealing but it’s still not okay to call someone a slut because you feel like they had too many sexual partners. It’s easy as that ¯_(ツ)_/¯
I didn’t mean to imply calling someone a slut was okay, just that thinking someone is a slut is just an “ick” thing for many.
They are not slut. There’s no reason to think of someone like that. Having more sexual partners than you are being comfortable with doesn’t make someone a slut.
It’s sorta what the word means
I’d argue that the word means that you care more about having “fun” than having “virtue”, but as long as noone is getting hurt, I see nothing wrong with that. Life is short.
I wasn’t trying to be judgemental, just saying what people mean with the word
Understood