I know people will click on this and cite Punnet Squares, scholarly journals, and Biology textbooks that they have read, when arguing against my post in their comments.

I will spend the rest of my life trying to prove that my dad’s distant relatives (both of which are rh+), didn’t create me, but merely raised me. Yep. I am fairly certain my rh- father had better things to do than devote his life to raising a baby girl in the late 80’s and 90’s. I am pretty sure I was pawned off onto his distant relatives. Am I NOT the product of an O+ male and an A+ female. An O+ and an A+ did NOT create an O-. There, I said it.

  • @ParabolicMotionOPEnglish
    1•4 months ago

    If you give blood, they’ll tell you your type and Red Cross will send you a card with your blood type on it.

    I’m just so sick of my parents’ lies. I hate all the memories of being trafficked to various states as child, all the memories of being in a hotel room with those people, and all of the abuse. I wasn’t adopted. I just want some law enforcement agency to investigate the people that raised me.

    • @over_cloxEnglish
      2•4 months ago

      Damn. Sweetheart, I sense the genuine pain and frustration in your post now ☹️

      I’m usually one to avoid DNA services for privacy reasons, but maybe you could check with https://www.ancestry.com/ or https://www.23andme.com/

      Sounds like you could use some solid evidence first. I have absolutely no reason to doubt you though.

      I wish all the best for you.

      • @ParabolicMotionOPEnglish
        1•4 months ago

        I did. I gave “dad” a kit for Father’s Day one year and he became upset. He muttered that he had to “go track someone down”. He took the kit with him, left the house, and then came back, smiling (like he usually does when he’s lying), and said he would submit the kit. Well, now I know my real dad is almost entirely Scottish and part Norwegian. He is definitely not the black haired, squatty, frog shaped oaf that raised me, and loved to beat me up each time his boss turned him down for a promotion at work. I just want to meet my real dad. There is a man in our community that works as a principal for local school (about thirty miles from me), and everyone swears that guy is my biological dad. He even looks like me. I think “dad” bought a used Dodge from him just recently, too, but became irate when I asked him to tell me who sold it to him. I felt like asking, “did the guy sell you a baby in the late ‘80’s, too?”

        • @over_cloxEnglish
          2•4 months ago

          I’m no expert in this field, but if you’re within the United States, there are services you can call regarding human trafficking…

          • @ParabolicMotionOPEnglish
            1•4 months ago

            I filed reports with the local police, and even an online report with the feds. “Dad” likes to bully me about the fact that no one is going to do anything about what happened to me as a child. He smiles and then tells me about how much he enjoys spending time alone with my kids. I signed them over to my mother, when I tried to join the military. I already had a career, but it wasn’t paying the bills, and I didn’t feel safe around “dad” after being forced to live with him during my divorce process. My mom filed for divorce from him, and I thought I could trust her to watch my kids, while I tried to enlist. She moved to another house to get away from him, and then suddenly began letting him visit the kids there. She lets him visit my kids alone, in her house, when she has places she needs to go. She is essentially giving him access to my children, without my consent, and I am struggling to put together money to pay a lawyer to make it stop. My daughter is upset and has told everyone that she no longer wants to live with grandma. She wants to live with me. Me and my poverty, as I struggle to regain a solid career again, after being refused by the Army NG for having had a gastro surgery in the past. I feel like I’m fighting against two blood gangs that have been trafficking children, like me, and my kids, for years. They isolate the kids from the biological parents, they assume the role of immediate family, and then they begin to abuse the children, while denying the biological parents any time with their children. Try and report them. Nothing ever happens. They’re part of a bigger group and it isn’t just in California.

            • @over_cloxEnglish
              2•4 months ago

              Have you ever tried the national number I shared? Again, I’m no expert in this field, but its bad enough you were mistreated. But now you have children being mistreated?!

              I’m not from the California area, but if you need any further assistance tomorrow to try finding help, I’ll see whatever else links I can find when I can.

              • @ParabolicMotionOPEnglish
                1•4 months ago

                Thank you. I’d like to call that number. I just worry it will lead to some gang that runs it just to silence the victims that call. The lack of support I received from small town, local, law enforcement doesn’t leave me feeling hopeful.