• @Mango
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    -487 months ago

    No “hey let’s split rent and I’ll get you all these free drugs” before eventually they come out with their expectations? Congrats. You don’t wanna be there. You especially don’t wanna share a jail cell with a dude who got himself moved in because you helped him with a phone call once and eventually he scratches the hell out of your glasses while you’re in the shower because you turned him down.

    Sorry for the run on sentences. I’m typing in the bathroom at work.

    • @Papergeist
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      317 months ago

      You bartered for drugs and were then surprised that this individual wasn’t completely honest?

      • @feedum_sneedson
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        -47 months ago

        If he was a woman you’d be all over yourself for victim blaming at this point, let’s try to be consistent.

      • @Mango
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        -277 months ago

        I didn’t barter. They were pretty well framed as gifts.

        • @Papergeist
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          77 months ago

          It’s the “drugs” part, dude.

          Look, I smoke weed in an illegal state. I don’t invite my plugs to my house, and I sure as hell don’t agree to split rent with them.

    • @[email protected]
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      167 months ago

      This is so extremely specific dude. You okay? Genuinely man I’ve been in shitty drug situations and if it would help I’m happy to chat here or elsewhere.

      • @Mango
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        -167 months ago

        I’m much better now, but I see a big crowd here invalidating others experiences because they think it’s the right thing. I can’t be silent about it.

        • @[email protected]
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          17 months ago

          I think maybe there was a misunderstanding, your comment sounds like it’s implying all gays are at fault

          • @Mango
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            27 months ago

            No. I’m just saying that homophobes aren’t necessarily homophobes because they’re bigoted. Plenty of them are that way because they’ve had a bad experience, or at least I was for a while. I’m good now, but my general approach with people is different and I get pretty triggered about people on the Internet who throw shit instead of trying to push for understanding. Nobody is going to achieve peace by attacking.

            Here’s a very relevant new Louis Rossmann video! https://youtu.be/cir-gJDcC1o

    • Tanis Nikana
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      167 months ago

      That is really specific. You okay, buddy?

      • @Mango
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        -247 months ago

        Yeah, but I’ve written off all personal relationships/sex and I make that very clear to everyone I have any involvement with. I won’t give creeps a leg to stand on.