• @[email protected]
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    206 months ago

    Yeah that’s horrible. I have a strict policy of turning off any notification that is not a direct message from a person to me or a reminder I set myself. If crap gets bundled like this, I turn it off altogether.

    When I used Tinder, I just checked the app every now and then and I remember people unmatching me again because I didn’t reply quickly enough. Online dating is so fucking toxic.

    • @pivot_root
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      156 months ago

      I put “Messages will arrive in three to five business days” in my bio, and that solved the problem nicely. Now, I simply don’t get matches at all 😎

      • @Emerald
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        26 months ago

        If you aren’t joking… that’s awesome

        • @pivot_root
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          25 months ago

          Yeah… I think you might be an optimist. It was not the positive outcome you appeared to have taken away from it.