I used to post quite actively in r/soapmaking since, well, I’m a soap maker.

My wife and I raised the pigs, rendered the lard, and mixed it with other oils and lye to make soap. You know, soap making.

r/soapmaking was filled with people who bought soap that other people made, melted it, mix in perfume and glitter, poured it into moulds, and sold it. I pointed out that they weren’t actually making soap but were doing arts and crafts with soap that other people make.

They set upon my like a bunch of extremist vegans at a BBQ. I said that there wasn’t anything wrong with doing soap arts and crafts but that it wasn’t really soap making since they didn’t actually make soap.

They called me arrogant for not accepting that not making soap was soap making and banned me. I can’t remember whether it was permanent or temporary but I never went back.

  • @Iheartcheese
    3•5 months ago

    This kind of toxicity is what got you banned from reddit. Can’t you just do your little hobby and let others do it as they want?

    • Maple EngineerOPM
      -3•5 months ago

      It must be really stressful to go through life so angry.

      You have clearly misinterpreted the intent of this community and my position on these things. (I’ve edited the sidebar to make it more clear.) I think it’s fucking hysterical that the toxic soap decorating crowd banned me. I mistook r/soapmaking for a sub that would include, you know, people who make soap. I wanted to talk about recipes and processes, successes and failures, but got perfume and sparkles instead. I laughed when they got butt hurt because I didn’t accept the group think that they were making soap as opposed to buying soap that other people made and adding smells and sparkles to it.

      I’m not “throwing a temper tantrum”, I’m laughing in their faces and sharing my amusement. I’m sorry you’re so fragile and defensive.

      • El Barto
        3•5 months ago

        It must be really stressful to go through life so angry

        That phrase doesn’t go well with:

        Either way is a fucking weak comment.

        I’m sorry you’re so fragile and defensive

        You’re projecting, and yup. I can see why they banned you, whether you were right or not.

        • Maple EngineerOPM
          -2•5 months ago

          Walk away from your computer. You’re going to have an aneurysm.

          • El Barto
            1•5 months ago

            Yup. Projecting.

            I just noticed you’re the mod of this community. I hope it takes off with better content.

            • Maple EngineerOPM
              1•5 months ago

              It will probably shrivel up and die within a few days but that’s ok. It’s achieved it’s intended goal.

      • @Iheartcheese
        2•5 months ago

        Wait… You made this sub because you got banned from Reddit? This entire place is so you can cry about being banned for your toxicity?

        • Maple EngineerOPM
          0•5 months ago

          No, I made it because I got banned by c/vegan on Lemmy along with a bunch of other people who responded to a post that came up in All so that I could make fun of them. I just added the two stories from Reddit because they are also funny.

          I’m sorry that you misunderstood.