• Th4tGuyII
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    1323 months ago

    It really saddens to me see how many managers out there treat their subordinates terribly, and then act surprised when their subordinates do the same - as though employees are meant to greatful for their terrible treatment

      • @[email protected]
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        583 months ago

        Does ring true dunnit?

        Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”

        and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”

        and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

    • ZeroTemp
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      203 months ago

      I recently was recently reprimanded for using the term “subordinates”. I was informed that term has fallen out of favor. Direct Reports is the proper way to say it these days.

        • @[email protected]
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          83 months ago

          That’s who you are to all the people who aren’t your boss but think they can tell you what to do anyway.

      • @[email protected]
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        83 months ago

        Honestly calling someone a “direct report” sounds even more dehumanising. At least calling someone a “subordinate” acknowledges that you’re belittling their existence. A “direct report” sounds like a piece of paper.

      • Th4tGuyII
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        13 months ago

        Fair enough. Subordinate is the term I’ve always heard used. Direct reports just sounds like the sugar coated version to me.

        • ZeroTemp
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          23 months ago

          Oh yeah it’s totally the sugar coated version. It’s funny because I was only using the term “subordinates” because that is what the software platform I was training on calls “direct reports”.