Hello Users of Hexbear I wanted to have a featured post discussing the next
steps for federation. We have discussed this at length among the mod team, and
it is pretty much evenly split between federating based on a "block-list" or
federating based on an "allow-list". While the mod team slightly skewed in favor
of federating using a block-list, meaning that any instance not specifically
blocked will be able to link with hexbear.net, we will be starting with an
allow-list. What this means is that only instances specifically on our
allow-list will be able to link with us, there are a few reasons for this. We
wanted to slowly integrate into the fediverse to see what it would mean for
hexbear.net's culture as well as how we fit into the wider fediverse. We also
wanted to ensure that we did not link with any instance that does not block
threads, or does not block the reactionary/fash/pedo instances.
I was honestly suprised to discover that most lemmy instances block lemmygrad.ml
but do not block the reactionary/pedo instances, sad. Here is a tenative list of
what our allow-list would look like: https://pathofexile-discuss.com/instances ,
https://possumpat.io/instances , https://lemmy.ml/instances ,
https://sopuli.xyz/instances , https://discuss.tchncs.de/instances ,
https://lemmygrad.ml/instances , https://mander.xyz/ , https://lemm.ee/ ,
toots.matapocos.dog a block-list would be massive and exhaustive to ensure that
we do not federate with any pornographic, reactionary, fascist, racist,
homophobic, transphobic, or csam-adjacent instances. We will be creating a
pinned post in c/hexbear where additional instances can be nominated for
addition to the allow-list. https://www.hexbear.net/post/277506 Please see these
previous posts by Nagarjuna regarding federation:
https://www.hexbear.net/post/273407 and https://www.hexbear.net/post/273404 If
you would like to officially put down your opinion on federation, please make a
comment with a ⬛️ if you'd like to federate based on a block-list, a ⬜️ if you'd
like to federate based on an allow-list, or a 🚫 if you do not with to federate
at all. Thank you and as usual off-topic comments will be removed.
Hexbear is far more likely to have users entering and using our comms, being another large socialist instance, albeit dedicated to left unity rather than Marxism like ourselves. I think there is enough of a culture change that we need to have a pinned post for hexbear users coming here explaining what kind of content/attitudes they might see here/what different rules to follow
There should also be a section dedicated to explaining to lemmygrad users to respect hexbear comm rules and what to expect from their users etc.
I think this would help ease any potential cross site struggle sessions
First off, I would like to apologize to you and the group of folks harmed, I am 90% sure the person you are referring to is no longer associated with the mod team. The current mod team of hexbear is majority trans and if you feel comfortable I would appreciate the chance to hear your grievances and any suggestions for the community going forward. I realize I cannot undo any of the previous damage but would like to move forward if there is any way to do so, otherwise thank you for speaking up and I wish you the best. (if you don’t want me doing this publically, I can delete this)
Nah, publicly is fine. I posted publicly, after all. Hearing that guy is gone is encouraging, and that most of the mod team is trans is as well. You actually can undo some of the damage directed at me personally by checking your discord logs and reviewing my ban. Violated rules once, punished twice for it, many months apart. FWIW, the other lemmy members who are hexbear refugees that I’ve spoken to barely remember the details, so maybe it’s all water under the bridge. I’ll clear my no vote, because it sounds like leadership has changed hands and being cordial and soliciting criticism is the most I’ve gotten from any mod there in the past
Hexbear has split from the discord almost a year ago but i asked someone involved with the discord to look into it and they said you aren’t banned. I don’t want to publically state your discord name but if you wanna DM me it to be sure i can verify it was what my friend was searching for.
Just to be clear the one administrated by chloe and tanner right? The initial lifeboat discord?
Just to say I’m one of the others who was around for that ‘lifeboat’ server and left at the same time. I don’t recall if they banned me, or if I just left in disgust at how they were treating us, along with you know… having a gods damned groomer for a mod and trying to spin it as us being anti-furry bigots.
In any case, assuming those people are in fact gone then I’m whatever. Trying not to care about online drama so much now.
I was never really involved with the discord server, don’t care for the platform, but the people running it have been for the most part troublesome and problematic. I can assure you the current hexbear admin team has been either banned from that discord server or left for similar reasons as you.
First off, I would like to apologize to you and the group of folks harmed, I am 90% sure the person you are referring to is no longer associated with the mod team. The current mod team of hexbear is majority trans and if you feel comfortable I would appreciate the chance to hear your grievances and any suggestions for the community going forward. I realize I cannot undo any of the previous damage but would like to move forward if there is any way to do so, otherwise thank you for speaking up and I wish you the best. (if you don’t want me doing this publically, I can delete this)
Nah, publicly is fine. I posted publicly, after all. Hearing that guy is gone is encouraging, and that most of the mod team is trans is as well. You actually can undo some of the damage directed at me personally by checking your discord logs and reviewing my ban. Violated rules once, punished twice for it, many months apart. FWIW, the other lemmy members who are hexbear refugees that I’ve spoken to barely remember the details, so maybe it’s all water under the bridge. I’ll clear my no vote, because it sounds like leadership has changed hands and being cordial and soliciting criticism is the most I’ve gotten from any mod there in the past
Hexbear has split from the discord almost a year ago but i asked someone involved with the discord to look into it and they said you aren’t banned. I don’t want to publically state your discord name but if you wanna DM me it to be sure i can verify it was what my friend was searching for.
Just to be clear the one administrated by chloe and tanner right? The initial lifeboat discord?
Just to say I’m one of the others who was around for that ‘lifeboat’ server and left at the same time. I don’t recall if they banned me, or if I just left in disgust at how they were treating us, along with you know… having a gods damned groomer for a mod and trying to spin it as us being anti-furry bigots.
In any case, assuming those people are in fact gone then I’m whatever. Trying not to care about online drama so much now.
I was never really involved with the discord server, don’t care for the platform, but the people running it have been for the most part troublesome and problematic. I can assure you the current hexbear admin team has been either banned from that discord server or left for similar reasons as you.