She’s been drinking a mug of black coffee with me in the mornings occasionally. I have a drip maker that I put 4 teaspoons Maxwell House in. Nothing beyond that.
I got this message around 11AM. We drank the coffee around 715-730.
I get that I wasn’t exactly the most sensitive I could have been, but I’m a rural mail carrier. I had to respond while stopped at a mailbox and we are GPS tracked. I get in trouble if I spend too much time stopped.
Not sure I’d call any of that mean, but you are wrong about it being out of her system. The half-life of caffeine in the body is around 5 hours on average, so at 11 am should would likely have more than 50% of the caffeine from the morning coffee still remaining