@[email protected] to ADHD [email protected]English • 4 months ago"It wouldn't be a problem if you weren't so lazy"slrpnk.netimagemessage-square6fedilinkarrow-up1407arrow-down111
arrow-up1396arrow-down1image"It wouldn't be a problem if you weren't so lazy"slrpnk.net@[email protected] to ADHD [email protected]English • 4 months agomessage-square6fedilink
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish12•4 months agoJust don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish14•4 months agoIt’s totally valid to ask: “Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?” It shows you actually care about the person and that it’s okay if they just want to vent. But you’re still there if they want and need help.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish5•4 months agoThank you, I will take that to heart :)
Just don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.
It’s totally valid to ask: “Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?” It shows you actually care about the person and that it’s okay if they just want to vent. But you’re still there if they want and need help.
Thank you, I will take that to heart :)