I wonder what the reaction would be if (…) you had a nice and pleasant picture of this woman?

If that happened, I’d probably be too preoccupied with the pigs flying past my second story kitchen window as hell freezes over.

she looks more like your kindly neighbor up the street

No such picture of her exists or will ever exist since she’s never going to look like that, much less BE like that.

allowing herself to become the face of an anti-gay movement

She very actively sought it out. Don’t pretend that none of it was her own doing.