Hi Lemons 😉
I was wondering what sort of things turn men on visually and personality wise? Same question for women?
And how come we don’t have more active users interested in sharing nsfw pictures, roleplaying and just other stuff? So much potential but still not many users?
Submission. I’m not too picky about the form, but when a woman gives something up to make me happy, I’m really happy. Sometimes that’s waking up a little before me to wake me up with a blowjob. Sometimes it’s bringing me a lit cigar, a glass of whiskey, and some boobs to enjoy. Sometimes it’s anal, or bondage.
I dated someone recently who would send a voice message with whatever I told her to say, within five minutes of me sending a text. That was great.
I absolutely love your answer! Not because I agree or disagree with it but because it’s descriptive, original and draws from your own experience. Totally what I was looking for. Too bad people don’t post too often at gonewild, it’d be interesting to see your contribution
Nah, I’m hard to look at. I get enough rejection from dating apps, I don’t need it from both women on Lemmy looking to chat up a guy.
Either way, I really liked reading your comment!
I get off on being in the other side of this equation and always think it’s such a good example of:
Just because something gets you off, doesn’t mean that’s the way the world should work.
Some guys take these feelings to mean women are submissive in all aspects of life, or worse, should be. That’s a fast track to a bad society. I’m capable, work a professional job, train the dogs, they are more disciplined for me than my husband, it’s not anything I like outside of sexually, comfortable taking care of myself.
But seeing a guy get turned on when I kneel? Holy fuck that is hot.
I hope your partners listen to those sorts of boundaries. I think it’s my job to play support in my partners’ lives, to help them achieve whatever their goals are. Some people just want to be given instructions for getting through life. Some people hate getting advice. I try to see the individual and not the gender when it comes to this stuff.
Submission from a happy, successful woman is the best. 😁 I hope you are giving and getting appropriately.