We’re an autistic couple. Both of us struggle with intense sensory stimuli, which is making oral sex difficult to give to each other.
Are their any tips on making this easier? We can just try things out and see what works
We’re an autistic couple. Both of us struggle with intense sensory stimuli, which is making oral sex difficult to give to each other.
Are their any tips on making this easier? We can just try things out and see what works
You do not have to do things you don’t find sexy! You can use hands, toys, there are so many ways to get off. Focus on what you DO enjoy, and please each other. There are no requirements.
Also - getting very turned on can ease inhibition, if you really need to try the oral sex, don’t start with it. Get very turned on first.