i mean if it’s noticeable, then that’s a great success for metoo. it brought attention to the importance of consent and the ability to give consent. to the idea that no doesn’t mean try harder and more forcefully, but that no means no.

that’s awesome. it’s not over, but it’s progress…

… then out of nowhere someone comes along and says “you ever notice men aren’t as rapey as before? what’s up with that?”