they don’t always have that conversation with you before hand.
Well, see, there’s the problem. If you’re into CNC, you need to have the conversation with someone, and you still need to establish safewords and shit, so that one person doesn’t think it’s CNC while the other person is experiencing sexual assault.
Oh, and the women that are into CNC are not into just anyone doing that; they still want it to be ‘safe’. Or safely un-safe.
Well, see, there’s the problem. If you’re into CNC, you need to have the conversation with someone, and you still need to establish safewords and shit, so that one person doesn’t think it’s CNC while the other person is experiencing sexual assault.
Oh, and the women that are into CNC are not into just anyone doing that; they still want it to be ‘safe’. Or safely un-safe.
these women don’t care about that. they are operating on a toddler level of wanting what they want and throwing a tantrum if they don’t get it.
communication is not something they have developed yet.