One that comes to mind for me: “Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” is not always true. Maybe even only half the time! Are there any phrases you tend to hear and shake your head at?

  • magnetosphere
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    1426 days ago

    “If you can’t take me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.”

    I always take that as “l am a garbage person who will abuse you.” It is a MASSIVE red flag.

    • @Persen
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      126 days ago

      Or it’s something you tell the abuser, when thy dismiss your emotions.