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No Stupid QuestionsEnglish • 4 months ago

what's a polite way to reject a picture with a very thankful patient who was under your care?

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what's a polite way to reject a picture with a very thankful patient who was under your care?

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No Stupid QuestionsEnglish • 4 months ago

I have a problem with establishing boundaries.

I’m a private person. That’s very often misinterpreted as being arrogant and feeling superior to others. I’m not, I just wish to be left alone, but people still feel disrespected and it’s tiring to be constantly explaining yourself. And I don’t understand why I have to explain myself constantly.

This very emotional and thankful patient wanted a picture with me and I stupidly agreed. He also wanted my phone number (I gave him a false one) to invite me to have lunch, as he celebrated his 70th birthday. I don’t believe it was sexual or romantic, because he is married, his wife was there when he extended the invitation and took the picture and he also wanted to invite the whole unit.

I acted like this because it was the easiest way to get him to leave the hospital and free the room but also because I didn’t want to cause a scene.

What could I do next time?

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I tell people: I’m sorry, I rarely take or appear in photos, it’s not something i’m comfortable with. if they press, I explain that it’s not them, it’s me, and mind their own business.

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