• xigoi
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    313 months ago

    Well, one more reason to be sad about being unlovable :/

    • @[email protected]
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      3 months ago

      Same.

      I only really ever had two goals in life and I managed to fail them stupendously:

      1)Not be the guy who’s miserable every day and doesn’t want to wake up to go to work.

      2)To be in a loving relationship.

      1 is making 2 even more difficult. On second thought it’s like an ouroboros, 1 makes 2 more difficult which compounds the misery of 1 lol

        • Rayquetzalcoatl
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          33 months ago

          That leaves two other suggestions in their comment!

          • xigoi
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            13 months ago

            I’m still not sure how that’s supposed to help in terms of being lovable.

            • Rayquetzalcoatl
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              The commenter was saying they reckoned it’d take one night of DND or a chat over discord to find a bunch of reasons that you are loveable. I know it can be hard to stay optimistic but I’m sure that, like almost everyone else, there are good things about you that people like

    • @Im_old
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      83 months ago

      Surprised this isn’t the first comment. That’s lot of us here.

        • SuiXi3D
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          33 months ago

          Love is an action, and it takes two. If you haven’t found someone to love you, keep looking.

    • peopleproblems
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      63 months ago

      So this blew my mind, but once I got beyond the whole “my ex doesn’t love me, she ruined my life” the whole thing of single 4eva disappeared. It turns out, you, as an individual, need to love yourself first, before anyone else can.

      Know why? Cause only you can advocate for all of your qualities and issues.

      I’m discovering a lot about me. I don’t have the time or energy for a significant other right now, so I should be single. Sure I have physical desires, but with creativity you can get through that.

    • @PhireFloofski
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      43 months ago

      same here. I should probably start blocking those types of posts. All they do is make my depression worse.