More dataisdepressing than dataisbeautiful

    • @T00l_shed
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      Women are rightfully concerned about the loss of bodily autonomy. They don’t want to live in the handmaids tale.

      • @krashmo
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        I’m sure that is part of it but proposing that as the sole reason seems unnecessarily reductive.

        • @[email protected]
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          Bro really said that losing all right to bodily autonomy isn’t a good enough reason to dramatically shift someone’s political leaning

          • @krashmo
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            I didn’t say that at all and if that’s what you thought I said then your reading comprehension skills could use some work. I said reproductive rights are a part of a larger culture shift in how women vote. If even one woman has started voting against Republicans for reasons other than abortion access then your dumb assertion that they don’t care about anything else falls apart. So maybe you should stop trying to simplify complex issues into easy to digest soundbites in order to make yourself seem like the most intelligent person in the room.

            • @Feathercrown
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              You’re right, but man reading this is insufferable. You could be much more effective if you weren’t trying to be a dick in your responses.

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          When pregnancy and child birth are such a monumental part of a persons life, and the ability to choose whether or not to go through that process is taken away, it makes a lot of sense why this is the ‘sole reason’ for some women. As someone who very recently gave birth, everything else in the world and other political topics are dwarfed by the absolute earth-shattering life event that is bringing a child into this world. I think it is something that people who haven’t been through it themselves, or who are not empethetic can not wrap their heads around. But there is absolutely a reason why many women are voting liberal for abortion rights alone. That is the single freedom that contributes most directly to a womens adult life. While tax policies and national affairs have an impact on everyones day to day lives, reproductive rights have an acute impact on womens immediate futures.

          • @krashmo
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            Abortion is undoubtedly a big reason for shifting voting habits for a large number of women. However, it is only one piece of the puzzle when it comes to the way conservatives, particularly conservative men, treat and talk about women.

            I know women who describe themselves as pro-life and yet have moved away from the Republican party due to the way they have handled various GOP leaders sex scandals, rape accusations, and general attitude towards women. They don’t want abortion rights restored and yet they are turning away from Republicans. That is why I say that viewing this shift in voting habits solely through the lens of reproductive rights is unnecessarily reductive. By doing so you are excluding women who are part of that shift from consideration both in this discussion and in the larger view of what women in America want their future to look like. Your experience, while not uncommon, is not universal and any discussion that frames a complex issue in such a way is missing part of the picture.

    • DessalinesOP
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      516 hours ago

      This is probably more of a symptom than a cause, but social media platforms pushing manosphere content isn’t helping.

      • metaStatic
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        I wasn’t paying attention for like 2 seconds and it went from “Men also have rights” to “Andrew Tate is a role model”, like WTF internet, stop ruining good things, fuck.

        • @UnderpantsWeevil
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          Unfortunately, “Men’s Rights” was a bait and switch. The Alpha/Sigma ideology says there can only ever be a handful of “True Men” worthy of human rights. Everyone else has to either prove themselves through combat or submit to being less than human.

          • @RupeThereItIs
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            Unfortunately it’s not a bait and switch, there real issues in how we’re failing boys and men are surely contributing to this concerning trend.

            Especially when we blame the victims.

            These “True Men” ass holes are simply swooping in to prey on the young men who’ve been left behind, like any cult leader would.

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              real issues in how we’re failing boys and men

              Only the poor ones. You know, the “betas”.

              These “True Men” ass holes are simply swooping in to prey on the young men who’ve been left behind

              They’re driving the disparity. Artificially constricting the demand for labor in order to drive down wages. Privatizing public services to squeeze working people for their last dime. Bombarding audiences with FUD in order to get them to blame every conceivable external agent - illegal migrants, evil foreign governments, spies, terrorists, literal fucking space aliens - so that the public is in a constant state of anxiety and exhaustion. Busting unions. Busting street protests. Busting college campuses. Corrupting the foundations of the political system to shield themselves from accountability for their shady actions. Then dumping vast fortunes into policing and the military in order to unleash wave upon wave of violence on working class communities.

              At the forefront of all of these moves are “Alpha” men. People who believe themselves entitled to enormous wealth and social privilege, extracting at the expense of the rest of us. Its only after we’ve been ravaged that we see the lackeys and sycophants of these self-entitled paymasters step back in to recruit for the next generation of gladiatorial fighters, street cops, and foreign mercenaries.

    • Pasta Dental
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      Andrew Tate blaming normal life issues on women and pushing teenagers to be very hateful against them is one big reason

    • @[email protected]
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      It’s “The Woke”. Women are more visible in society as they are treated more equally, so certain (yes not all men) men see that as men losing rights and want to go back to “the good old days”

      If you created a similar graph mapping the ideology gap between races or straight and LGBTQIA+ they’d look very similar.

    • @stupidcasey
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      The answer is simple the media is radicalizing people and gender is one of their primary motivations it is hand tailored to divide and conquer minds.

    • Cowbee [he/him]
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      Rapid increases in the productive forces of South Korea has resulted in a progressive population of women and a hyper-reactionary population of men, the increase in productive forces was so rapid it caused a hyper-sharpening of contradictions with tradition.

    • @[email protected]
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      Fascism is sociologically rooted in the sexual insecurity of men. That’s why it’s always men driving it.

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        Fascism is Capitalism in decline. Masculinity is a recognized part of fascism, but fascism is rooted in Capitalist decay, not in moral failures of men.

        • @[email protected]
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          112 minutes ago

          Women live in the same declining capitalistic society as men, yet they are far more resistant to fascism. That’s not to say there is something wrong with men or masculinity. Society puts different pressures on men and women so they react differently.

        • @[email protected]
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          Fascism is capitalism when the capitalist class gets too successful, as soon as the capitalists realize they can establish fascism they always do.

        • @[email protected]
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          No, it’s not “men’s” fault, but the people who’s fault it is are primarily men. That’s not an opinion, that’s just history, not to mention what’s happening before our eyes. Even women who are fascist push patriarchy. There is no point in debating whether fascism is primarily a male driven phenomenon. The only legitimate question is why?

        • @Cypher
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          I knew it as soon as I read your ‘Tate is right’ bullshit.

          So facism is mens fault?

          Yes. Men had all the political power in the countries that turned to fascism in the past. If you knew any history this would be obvious.

          I wonder how that effects a young man who isnt a facist while they are developing?

          The same way that one woman having an abortion harms another woman; not at all.

          Ur narrative is actively harming young men and driving them to be the very thing u swore to drstroy.

          It’s room temperature IQ weakling reactionaries like you that are harming young men. Real men stand against fascists.

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            Yes. Men had all the political power in the countries that turned to fascism in the past. If you knew any history this would be obvious.

            this is kind of meaningless to point out, since men also had the power in every country that turned towards socialism, gave or took away rights, started and ended wars, etc.

          • I knew it as soon as I read your ‘Tate is right’ bullshit.

            So men have no issues and the only reason men are listening to tate is cos they are hatfull evil bastards?

            Yes. Men had all the political power in the countries that turned to fascism in the past. If you knew any history this would be obvious.

            Im so happy to learn that women didnt go along with fascism or support it in any way. If u knew anything about history u’d have heard of Magda Goebbels, Irma Grese, Eva Braun, Margaret Harker, Yukiko Sugishita etc.

            The same way that one woman having an abortion harms another woman; not at all.

            Abortions are about the liberty to do with onself as one wishes, what does this got to do with u blaming men for fascism? Having your gender (something where most people derive a majority of their identity) blamed for the entirety of facism and its hanouse actions isnt exactly fair or a good way to raise a child.

            It’s room temperature IQ weakling reactionaries like you that are harming young men. Real men stand against fascists.

            This is bad faith child-like insults not a civilised discussion of ideas undertaken by real adults. I stand against fascists and i will not let you paint me as one.

    • bountygiver [any]
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      35 hours ago

      to the privileged, equality is oppression. And therefore more pushback to maintain the status quo

    • @stupidcasey
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      Apparently you are, god speed you poor thing.

    • @avogadro
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      Women’s lib has been great for women but not so good for men. So men are becoming reactionary.

      • socsa
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        Bullshit. Most men suffer under toxic patriarchy as well. I absolutely love that this shit is finally getting pulled into the spotlight. I have not suffered a single iota of harm from anything “woke” and I would argue that no honest man has either.

        • @neatchee
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          Dishonest men still get to vote though

        • How do men suffer under patriarchy? Do u really want to be the one blaming 75% of suicides on men not being allowed to beat their wives? Sounds like ur calling all cis men evil bad people. I wonder what such a narrative would do to a young man trying to develop a sence of self, identity, and personal ideology?

          • @Cypher
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            Do u really want to be the one blaming 75% of suicides on men not being allowed to beat their wives?

            This is so back asswards it is genuinely astounding.

            Men are 75% of suicides under patriarchy.

            Damn I wonder how someone could conclude that patriarchy hurts the majority of men.

            • @TexasDrunk
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              Yep. Toxic masculinity wants us to work ourselves to death without complaining to anyone. So our mental health is in the fucking toilet. If you’re not working enough, you’re not providing and you’re not a real man. If you do work enough but show any emotion that’s not a “manly” emotion (anything involving tears outside of a funeral or during Old Yeller or anything that’s too excited) then you’re not a real man.

              I could write a whole dissertation on how young men get sucked into that whole toxic ideology due to the promises of being able to have a family and a house. And it’s all a fucking lie.

              • sunzu2
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                Toxic masculinity wants us to work ourselves to death

                My man… Your owner wants this and we LARPed that kool aid.

                Got take some ownership IMHO

                Also, got to ID the perp… Otherwise this entire discussion is a futile exercise.

            • Men are 75% of suicides under patriarchy.

              Male suicide is getting worse every year the patriarchy is getting destroyed more every year, im simply pointing out the correlation is backward sof what u claim.

              Damn I wonder how someone could conclude that patriarchy hurts the majority of men.

              The data correlates exactly the wrong way for this to be true.

              • @Cypher
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                Correlation does not equal causation.

                I would point to the economic disparity that is widening in virtually every advanced economy as a much more relevant driver of male suicide.

                • Correlation does not equal causation.

                  Exactly but causation does not come without correlation. Causation is a subset of correlation.

                  I would point to the economic disparity that is widening in virtually every advanced economy as a much more relevant driver of male suicide.

                  Economic disparity should be effecting the genders equally unless you are saying women are doing better financially.

          • @[email protected]
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            How do men suffer under patriarchy?

            Queer and gender nonconforming men get an immense amount of abuse due to patriarchy. Even gender conforming straight boys and men do if they show sensitivity in any real capacity. The abuse of boys and young men for the sake of making them “man up” is hardly an unusual in many areas.

            Do u really want to be the one blaming 75% of suicides on men not being allowed to beat their wives?

            What? This has nothing to do with the comment you replied to.

            Sounds like ur calling all cis men evil bad people.

            No, this is a ridiculous conclusion you drew from someone saying patriarchy hurts everyone.

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        What the fuck?

        Just because one side gets more rights, doesn’t mean the other side loses rights.

        I guess if the rights you miss is the ability to beat your wife without repercussions.