They line up in front of a courthouse in southeastern France, from morning to evening, and have gathered in the thousands in cities across the country. They hold signs reading, “one rape every six minutes,” “not all men but always a man,” and “giving in is not consenting.”

They chant: “Rapist we see you, victim we believe you.”

Women across France are rallying in support of Gisèle Pelicot, a 72-year-old reluctant icon whose husband is on trial in the city of Avignon for systematically drugging her and inviting dozens of men, 50 of whom are now his co-defendants, into their home to rape her over nearly a decade.

The shocking case has sparked what many women in France call a long-overdue reckoning over “rape culture” and systemic sexism in the way the judicial system handles sexual violence.

  • @[email protected]
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    1 month ago

    thanks for being one of the reasonable ones in this comment section lol. and it seems you’re doing a pretty good job of trying to enact change. keep it up, it’s a team effort :)

    sorry to hear about your story as well, hope everything is going well for you now.

    • @Regrettable_incident
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      81 month ago

      Cheers, yeah I’ve kinda grown into my own shit. It’s caused me a lot of problems over the years, but I’m getting old now and I’m okay with stuff.

      I’m just saying that anyone can get hurt like that, but it’s mostly women getting hurt and it’s mostly men doing the hurting. We’ve got to fuckin stop doing that because it is profoundly wrong.

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        01 month ago

        Lol does it feel good that they literally called you “one of the good ones?”

        Personally I think that’s pretty wild, imagine saying that to a black person lol. I’d frankly be upset by that if I were you wait I am upset about it lol, look at me being one of those uppity men again.

        • @strawberrysocial
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          21 month ago

          They said reasonable ones, not good ones. Those words have two different meanings. Don’t put words in their mouth.

          • @[email protected]
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            -11 month ago

            Mmhmm, and if I told my friend (who is black, important note) that I like him because he’s one of “the reasonable ones,” that would be tooootally normal and not racist at all right? Right?