• @[email protected]
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    42 days ago

    Do you get a lot of opportunity to indulge your kinks? If so, do you live in a major city?

    • @PackagedGothOP
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      22 days ago

      Sadly I don’t. I’ve only really had a chance to do stuff once but other than that, I don’t really get a chance which is pretty annoying

      • @[email protected]
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        32 days ago

        Yea outside of a small number of experiences with a like minded friend who is no longer available I haven’t had much of a chance to explore that side of myself either

        • @PackagedGothOP
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          32 days ago

          It’s annoying because even after finding someone who is into it, there are always weirdos or people who u feel u can’t trust too much with u being that vulnerable

          • @[email protected]
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            22 days ago

            Yea. I mean I’m a dude so slightly less of a concern for me compared to yourself but still concerning.

            I live in a fairly isolated town so it’s not impossible for me to get to events but a little difficult and expensive. Other events and stuff to spend money on always come up. I did go to a Torture Garden event once, but that was over 10 years ago 😱

            • @PackagedGothOP
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              32 days ago

              I live in the Uk and Kink events aren’t really a thing here, at least I haven’t seen any about or advertised etc.

              • @[email protected]
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                32 days ago

                I’m in England, the north specifically. Kink events do happen in the UK but they’re rare and mostly in London or Birmingham.